Missing Kitakyushu or Itsuka kaette kuru

Itsuka kaite kuru (Someday I will return) — I must have said that at least fifty times during the last two weeks before we left Japan in July 1995. After three years of living in Kitakyushu, it was time to move on. Back then my husband was in the Japanese Exchange Teaching programme (JET) which was limited to a maximum stay of three years. During that time we had our first child as well and could not imagine making ends meet on a long-term basis with just free-lancing jobs.

Well, now the time has come for me to return to this important place in my stage of personal growth. On April 6th, I will take our born-in-Japan son for a 10-day trip to the island of Kyushu, where we still have many dear friends. I will show him the hospital he was born in and the small eatery where the proprietor would hold him, so I could eat. I will take him to the green grocer’s down the street where the grandmother, running her fingers over the abacus, would total up my purchase in such a shrill and unforgettable voice.

Japan, to me, had been the land of a thousand opportunities. It’s a challenging place to live and with the Japanese people’s help, I got to explore myself a bit more. I had the chance to take photos for the Asahi newspaper, I was on the cover of the local newspaper and got interviewed on TV, I held a lecture about Germany in the local library, and much more. It had been a very exciting time — not to mention giving birth in Japan as well!!

Wakamatsu-ku in Kitakyushu-shi, where we lived, is a very rural place inhabited by lots of senior citizens made up of fishermen and vegetable farmers. Living there, halfway up Takato mountain, we got a true sense of Japan. We looked at bamboo forests from our back window. When we walked to the other side of the apartment – done fairly quickly! – we overlooked Dokai Bay (industrial port) with its Wakato Hashi bridge, and many high-rise buildings made up the rest of the landscape.

Japan is a land of opposites, which makes for its charm and provides endless topics to talk about.

While checking on-line bookstores, I came to realize not much has been written about Kyushu. It is hardly ever on a tour agenda and might be viewed by some as the “armpit of Japan”.

The only book I have come across which mentions Kyushu – at least in its final chapters – is Alan Booth’s travel log about his hike from Hokkaido to Kyushu. I loved this book. He captured it all: foibles and quirks of the Japanese, encountering annoying moments and extreme kindness at the same time, and the highs and lows of any kind of undertaken journey.

To learn more about this book The Roads to Sata click here

If you have ever been to Kyushu, share your experience!

Comments

  1. I am excited for both you and Thomas – what a wonderful journey of discovery for him and the opportunity to share important memories as well. Too bad the whole family can’t go! Have a fantastic and safe trip. I hope to hear about it when you return.

  2. Sensei! Ohisashiburidesu.
    I’ve never been in Kyushu.
    But I’m interested to visit such a nice rural areas.
    If you have chance to visit Tokyo during the trip, please contact me.
    I’d love to see you and Thomas.
    Have a wonderful trip!!

  3. reiner gehles says

    Da werden doch alte Erinnerungen wach. Ich hatte damals Maria für eine Woche in Japan besucht. Wir hatten viel Spaß beim Deutschkurs für Japanerinnen.
    Japan ist wirklich eine Reise wert.

  4. To Mari Y.

    Wow! What a surprise to read your lines!
    Thanks for inviting us to see you in Tokyo, but our time is only set for Kyushu. I love Kyushu and its people.

    In the three years we lived in Japan, I never made it once to Tokyo. We made it to one of the most northern points of Japan, Wakkanai, and to the most southern point of Japan, the island of Taketomi.

    Hope you get to “learn” more about Kyushu via this travel log and you will still get to practise your English reading comprehension skills.

    Shinnen Omedeto!

  5. Wendy Jarratt says

    Hi Maria,
    great that you and Thomas are going to Kitakyushu. Reading about it brought back so many memories – especially of you, Jon and Thomas and of course wonderful Wakamatsu. I remember going to visit the hospital when Thomas was born and making a square for a quilt for him – do you still have it?
    I would love to be going with you. I of course want to return and visit friends and show my husband John the places that I loved – but we haven’t got there yet – no excuses.
    Anyway keep us posted as your trip gets closer.
    Love Wendy

  6. Hi, I’m writing a story for Pregnancy magazine about women giving birth overseas and would love to interview about your experience, would you mind talking to me?

    best wishes

    Lola Brown

  7. Hi Lola,

    Sure – I would love to!!
    I will contact you via private e-mail.

  8. Susan Fedors says

    I am looking forward to reading about your trip. My brother-in-law is from Japan so we have many gifts and heard many stories about Japan, but alas I have never been there. Have fun – what a great experience for Thomas!

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